IMPORTANT to remember . . .
when the Excitement of the MARRIAGE CONSECRATION and HONEYMOON are OVER.
The enemy (satan) will try everything to disrupt and break the bond of unity between husband and wife - BE WATCHFUL and ALERT!!!
Remember to place Father YHUH first in everything - ALWAYS!!!
Spend time together in reading Scripture and praying (the husband should take the lead)
Make mutual decisions as far as possible (the husband should take the lead)
Assist one another with house choirs
Make specific time each day and give one another opportunity to share all the days activities/events, including your [highs] and [lows]
Never stop "courting" ONE ANOTHER - continue to romance one another - be creative and adventurous
Never have an argument in public or in front of the children
Never allow one another to [fight] dirty and bring up things of the past (it had to be dealt with before marriage)
Always address the [issue] at hand and do not attack your spouse's character and call him/her names
If you speak negatively about your spouse outside of marriage, you are placing a CURSE on your marriage that the enemy will use against you . . . remember that you are ONE with your spouse - if you curse him/her, you curse yourself, as the covenant is between FATHER YHUH, husband and wife. What you sow, you will reap
Do as much as you can together
Try to exercise together
Support one another's hobbies/interests
Accept and spend time with each others families
Build mutual friendships and visit your friends together - do not give the enemy a footstool