Eccl 4:10 For if they fall, one lifts his companion up. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.
Jas 1:19-20 So then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath, for the wrath of man does not work the righteousness of Elohim.
Eph 4:26 “Be wroth, but do not sin.” Do not let the sun go down on your rage.
We need to UNDERSTAND that marriage was instituted by FATHER YHUH and is therefore set-apart -- a COMMITMENT for LIFE.
It is NOT a CONTRACT that you can get out of if your partner does not fulfill in your needs . . .
A CONTRACT is based on PERFORMANCE!
A COVENANT is NOT based on PERFORMANCE, but on SELFLESS LOVE and ACCEPTANCE, IN GOOD and BAD TIMES . . .
Marriage is ALL ABOUT GIVING (serving)!
PLACING your COMPANIONS NEEDS BEFORE your own - just as our Redeemer (Messiah) did when He died for us on the execution tree/pole.
It is therefore CRUCIAL to UNDERSTAND that both husband and wife are RESPONSIBLE for their OWN HAPPINESS. They should BOTH be WHOLE and SECURE (in their personal relationship with YAHUAH).
This state of being responsible for their own happiness before and during the marriage means that they are not dependent on each other to define them or make them happy, but MERELY to COMPLETE each other.
They are thus DEPENDENT on Almighty YAHUAH for their fulfillment, joy, peace and happiness, and ACCOUNTABLE to each other in marriage.
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