There is NO LASTING UNION other than that FOUND in and PRESERVED through Father Yahuah (YHUH), through His Son Yahusha, by their Ruach (Spirit)!
One fundamental TRUTH that BOTH man and woman MUST UNDERSTAND before engaging into marriage, is that Messiah Yahusha in Father Yahuah (YHUH) should be the 1st love of both parties and His kingdom must be sought and placed first - the Word of ELohim is very clear on this.
The success and prosperity of the marriage is GREATLY DEPENDENT on this. If He is not the foundation and cornerstone of the marriage, one builds in vain, for His foundation is the only one that will stand firm.
The following Scriptures confirm this . . .
Col 1:16-18 Because in Him were created all that are in the heavens and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or rulerships or principalities or authorities – all have been created through Him and for Him. And He is before all, and in Him all hold together. And He is the Head of the body, the assembly, who is the beginning, the first-born from the dead, that He might become the One who is first in all.
1Cor 3:11 For no one is able to lay any other foundation except that which is laid, which is יהושע (Yahusha) Messiah.
Mat 10:37 "He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me, and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me".
2Cor 11:2 For I (Almighty Yahuah) am jealous for you with a jealousy according to Elohim (Almighty). For I gave you in marriage to one husband, to present you as an innocent maiden to Messiah.